How to Handle Bad Influencers in your Child’s Life

Peer pressure has one of the most powerful influences on a person’s life, whether they are young children, tweens, teens or adults.

However as a parent you have an impact on your child and how they turn out, so keep an eye out for these warning signs…

> Grades decline or there are regular bad test scores
> Teachers complain about bad behaviour
> Loss of interest in hobbies and activities
> Neglecting chores and responsibilities
> Ignoring rules such as curfews
> Avoiding any questions about plans with friends
> Changes in image and mood
> Obsession with personal appearance
> Getting involved in risky behaviour such as drinking, smoking, drugs and sexual activities
> Trouble with the law

Paying attention to the signs of a negative influencer is important, but it is also important to encourage positive role models and friends in your child’s life. Here’s how…

> Get to know your child’s friends and their families – Invite them into your home and spend time with them

> Get involved in your community – This will help you to identify the positive influencers in your child’s environment

> Get your child involved in activities, sports, projects, etc. – Positive forms of peer pressure encourage healthy behaviour

> Motivate your child – You cannot control your child’s choice of friends, however it is a good idea to create positive incentives that motivate your child to embrace good behaviour!

You can have a positive impact on your child’s life – you just need to know how to handle all the bad influencers that they may come across.

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